Disadvantages of marrying a filipina

We have seen that many Filipinas are desperately searching for foreign boyfriend or husband. Some relationships have gone well but many more have gone wrong. Why? Here I am going to mention the reason why foreigners should not marry women from Philippines.

REASONS: 

1)* Most Filipinas marry foreigner for money. It’s not real love for her husband. It’s love for his riches. They will spend time with him just so that they can get money to enjoy life and help her family financially. Filipina wife and her families will keep asking money from foreigner husband and treat him as free money lender. Even if you help them 9 times and refuse to send money just once, then they will call you bad and start using bad words. After few months or years of marriage, they will ask for divorce and that time will demand for huge amount of money and properties of husband. So this is huge loss for the foreigner and they regret later about marrying Filipina.

2) Some Filipinas especially educated ones are marrying foreigners for citizenship. In this case, she will pick any men even if she don’t like his attitude. Once she is citizen of your country, she is ready to leave her husband and then find another man from Philippines or better guy from that country. So in this case, foreigner is just being used for achieving her dream of getting citizenship.

3)* They are not serious about relationship. Most of them are dating just for fun. So after a few months or years, they start saying that their feelings change and they leave. They can’t love and stay with one men forever. When they leave, it will be in harsh way because they are selfish and won’t care about your feelings. Moreover they will blame her ex for breakup. Even if her family and friends know that it’s her fault, they will still support her and then they will spread out that her ex-bf was bad. So this is like a double murder to the boyfriend who is so innocent. You will find lot of Filipinas as single moms and when asked for the reason, they will say that they breakup because their ex-boyfriend was a cheater or irresponsible father. Some of them maybe true but sometimes it is woman’s fault also but they don’t want to admit their mistake. So don’t give full trust on Filipina women and her friends too.  Some of them are single moms due to prostitution or having sex with friends just for pleasure.

4) Please don’t expect them to be loyal to you. There are some cases where Filipina girlfriend or wife cheats her bf or husband. When their truth is revealed, they still don’t admit it and instead they will act rude to us and start assaulting. Already there are some cases where it’s found that they sleep with other men even while having husband and then when they get pregnant, they deny the fact that the child about to be born is from that other men. This women don’t feel guilty being so selfish and cold hearted one.

5) Our culture is different from Filipinas. It’s difficult to adjust with each other when living together. Then they have to adjust with other family members also which is another difficult task. It takes long time to learn and adjust but in most cases, the couples give up and then divorce. In Philippines, they are taught to give priority to family first. So if her family tells her to leave the husband, she will do it and go back to her family. Their husband is never their first priority and it shows that they don’t really love him. Marriage is a sacrament which should be given more priority than family.

6) Some Filipina women are perverts. So they will want to try many different men for sex. They do it for money and pleasure. Then they ask for dick sizes, nudes in our messages box and also they want sex video call. But in public, they are acting decent and so innocent. They become single moms and say that they are proud of it. Philipines is well known place for sex tourism and ranked 6^th in the world for sex tourim countries. Such women are not supposed to get married. They can cheat their husband anytime they like.

7) In online dating, Filipinas ask foreigners for money and they give several reasons like “I want to buy cellphone so that we can talk everyday”, “family member is hospitalized and need to pay hospital bills”, “need to pay school fees”, “need money to buy plane ticket to come and meet you”, etc. which is a false story to make you believe that they sincerely need financial support and then after getting money, they will either block him or try to get more money from him next time. They will date you secretly or from her other/fake account so that her real boyfriend or husband and people don’t know about this fake relationship. They do this scamming for money and also are players.

8 ) Some Filipinas are now saying that they search for old men to date. It’s because they want to be queen of his family. It’s very obvious that these old men will die soon after few years and then she can become owner of his property. Also it’s easier to cheat old men and date some young guy secretly. After these old men is dead, she is rich and can get to do whatever she want with his riches. So this old men need to be wise and not fall into Filipina’s dirty tricks.

9) They may say that they are God fearing and religious but they don’t even know Bible well and are thinking that whatever they do is right and acceptable by God while doing so much sin. They don’t actually love their partner in real. It’s just acting or INFATUATION. Filipinas don’t take marriage life seriously. They make so many promises to their lover but break it so easily because they are not serious about it.

I wrote this message as post on Facebook in December 2017. This are real life experiences of many foreigners who married a Filipina. Many foreigners have read my post from Facebook. I made this so that foreigners don’t get fooled by Filipinas. I am not saying that all Filipinas are bad but most of them are. If they were good, they would have dated their own countrymen but they are looking for rich men from foreign countries and even spoiling reputation of men from their own country. There are some Filipinas who are good and satisfied with their husband or staying single. One of my friend had suggested me to start blogging and post this message here because many foreigners need to know this before they meet any Filipina.
I hope that you learned alot from this. If you have questions, you can ask me. Take care guys!